i'm a post-feminist in a patriarchal society, a society that seems more intent on redefining language than it is in redefining behaviour.

but, i'm also a liberal. and, that means that i don't take responsibility for your emancipation - i expect that you will take the initiative to fight for it, yourself.

and, if you won't, that's not my concern.

my concern is myself, and my own behaviour, and my own emancipation from patriarchy.