my mother has to understand that i don't love her and don't want her in my life. i have no obligation to love or care for my mother, and my mother does not deserve reciprocal care, as she did not provide me any. she deserves to die alone in a homeless shelter.
she's a slow learner, apparently.
it's imperative that i'm as rude and hostile with her as i possibly can be to ensure that she never tries to contact me ever again.