listen, if you want to talk about winning and losing games then you can go do it without me - i don't care about sports analogies, i don't care about winning and i'm perfectly happy to lose.

i hate sports.

what's important here is not whether one society "wins" and the other one "loses", it's whether or not the state thinks it can force people to play games it doesn't care about. 

so, go play your stupid games if you insist - but stop walking around with a gun and trying to tell me what to do. i don't want to play. at all.