being gay certainly wouldn't be a reason i'd vote for you. not realizing that anal sex is disgusting isn't a political position.
i think straight marriage should be abolished, so my position on gay people getting married is kind of oblivious. i think the premise is abjectly stupid, to be blunt with you, but i don't really care. it's dumb, but it's a harmless, silly delusion. so long as straight people are getting married, i don't see any particular reason to tell gay people they can't, but my actual position is that all marriage should be abolished; i support marriage abolition, and not "marriage equality", but i'm not at all hung up on gays getting married in the mean time, i'm just not in support of it and wouldn't vote for it.
however, something that i do have an issue with is gay people (both men and women) raising children. i don't think that's something that society should ignore or accept. i would actually support congress and parliament enacting legislation to prevent gay "couples" from adopting. it's not an issue of the rights of the gays, it's an issue of the rights of the kids. kids should have the right to not be subjected to having gay parents, as that's a situation that you kind of can't get out of, if you get placed in it. the only arguments i've seen that address this have to do with socio-economic outcomes, but that's a red herring that doesn't address the emotional trauma involved with being placed in a gay family and having to deal with the social stigma of having gay parents. society can and should strive to do better for it's children than that. this is something that we have an ability to make a conscious choice to not do and should not be done.
at the very least, children placed with gay "couples" should have the ability to opt out some time around the age of 5 or 6, and continuing until the age of majority.
i mean, i can imagine how i'd react to having adopted gay parents, and it wouldn't be accepting or inclusive of them. i'd be out of there before i turned 15, even if it meant sleeping on the streets.