i'm not trying to look like a pothead rock star.

i neither create, nor listen to nor even like that kind of music.

i've been clear on this point. over and over again.

i'm trying to look like what i am: a fairly studious, well educated female with a hobby in music.

and, i'll tell you - i wouldn't do it, but it's true....

if i were to cut my hair and wear nerd glasses and polo shirts, you'd just tell me i make a shitty dad - and i would make a shitty dad, because i don't want to raise a family any more than i want to sit around and do drugs.

i neither want a job, nor do i want to be a drunk. yeah, well, it's your preconceptions that are fucked.