think of it like this...

if i were really the pothead guy you'd like to pretend i am, would that not transform itself into a very different type of female?

would the female equivalent of the male you imagine i ought to be come off as i actually do? i would think she'd be rather different - more interested in fashion, and current trends and etc.

now, if you interpret me the way i intend you to, i'm actually a pretty nerdy female, aren't i? i usually wear pants & tanktops, or tshirts. not very stylish, really. and, i don't go to the kinds of things that popular girls go to, or have interests that align well with the in group. my female side is positively loserish, right?

so, why would you transform this loserish female side into this dynamic male? wouldn't it actually make more sense to convert the nerdy female i present myself as into a nerdy male counterpart?

but, you just want to see what you want, right?

and, i'll disappoint you all year, if you insist.