sarah and i had a rule that we split equally on everything.

if we went for lunch, it was 50/50. rent was 50/50. we'd split beers. if we shared a smoke....ok, maybe we weren't that militant.

but the intent was to try to undo as much of the concept of patriarchy as was possible.

she liked it at first, and then didn't. but, i had no desire to retreat from it, even when she did.

*shrug*.