if you really want satan out of your lives, i'd advise purchasing the Satan Spray and applying it generously across your window sills. that's where the bad spirits come in.

i think the more fundamental problem is that we tend to view marriage as an undissolvable permanent contract, rather than a short term arrangement. if both parties enter into the agreement on fully rational terms, and with the understanding that goals and dreams and opinions change and evolve, then the process of moving on can be taken out of the irrational space that religion places it in.

if a partner in a relationship begins to look elsewhere, that is not some kind of "sin". it's just a reflection of unhappiness. if the relationship was stable, that wouldn't happen. and, people should act on those impulses rather than try and suppress them. the only moral issue at play, here, is being honest with your partner about this. maintaining an unhappy relationship benefits nobody, especially not the kids.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ilFuzKURvhk