in the short run, i'm realizing that i can't live with older white men that have recent genetic history in the northern parts of eurasia. we're just not evolved for the same environmental conditions - he likes it cool and dry, because he's adapted to it; i like it hot and humid, because that's my own adaptation.
even if the issue right now is more about outside than inside...
it's looking like it's popped up a little closer to 25, so i'm going to see if i can get out of bed and get dressed.