technically, her request for an extension has neither been granted nor denied, so the actual legal status of the case is that the respondent has not responded, at this time - and the judge needs to pick it up from there.
if she had responded by her self-appointed date, it would at least demonstrate good faith. but, all i can do is wait for a judge to pick the case up and look at it holistically; when they do, they're going to need to respond to multiple requests, all of which have exceeded their own deadlines.
this is exceedingly annoying, but i'll just have to keep calling to bug them until they finally do it.