it's an error i've seen conservative fake-leftist progressives make over and over again, this misperception of misanthropy as misogyny or racism. it's essentially a category error. rather than realize that the individual hates everybody and is consumed with a more burning hate towards the state of society, something often driven by hate towards the political or social system they inhabit, they focus in on a specific aspect of their hate and misrepresent it as exclusionary.
it's just bad thinking, as performed by stupid people.
but, i won't deny being hateful, i'd just ask you to realize my hate isn't exclusionary - it's broad-based and directed at almost everybody.