i mean, it's kind of the explanation to this, right?

who makes a promise to their dying husband to be a fiduciary to his disabled child, only to break it five days later, besides a psychopath on the autism spectrum?

and, it's kind of a constant in her behaviour. for years, i thought she was horribly immoral; in hindsight, she might actually just not be fully capable of really understanding what she's even doing. it's this inability to give a fuck; it's clinical, clearly, but it seems like something is missing rather than that something is off balance.

if we're going to go through this, it would be better for her to give me the rest of the $500/month up front. as i say - that $50,000 number has been bandied around. maybe, we cut it off there. i dunno.