i can state with clarity that he knew that she was going to cut me out against his will, and can point out clear actions that he took to try and prevent it, which ultimately didn't work.
what's unclear is whether i had or have any real legal recourse to challenge it, and whether there was enough money on the table for it to be worthwhile to do so.
i think i'm better off on odsp, but if i get thrown off i'll have to crunch the numbers and work it out.