because we live in the time of orwell, it might be necessary to change the language - to stop using the term "feminism", which is supposed to mean equality but doesn't any more, and start using the term "egalitarian", just to get the point across that much more clearly.
and, in an egalitarian society, if you're going to act like these women are acting, you're going to need to take some flak for it - you can't demand a free pass for being a girl.