to clarify the point: if you took me off the hormones, i'd be gay, but i'd be 120 pounds and scrawny, long haired and disinterested in guy stuff, and consequently not particularly interesting to gay men.

so, i might like the gay men, but the gay men wouldn't like me so much.

it's a circle that you can't really square, which is why i'm certain i will spend my life single. but, you need to take me at face value on it.