i'm going to state this as simply and succinctly as possible.
i actually think that queer people should be carrying out a permanent, unconditional boycott of anything to do with the military-industrial complex. that is, i would argue for a total, voluntary withdrawal of all queer people from the army. and, i do believe that that there is something inconsistent about holding to a queer identity, and joining the army.
i would consequently have little concern about somebody telling me i can't join the military. yes, please?
that is all.