and, i'll state it again: while i have turned down several women and several men over this period, the last time i had consensual sex at all was in 2006. 

i have only had sex with one person in my life. that i remember, anyways. 

i identify neither as straight nor gay nor bi but as asexual. but, should i have sex again, it will only be post-op, and probably with somebody with a penis.