Sunday, September 13, 2015

if i were roman, i'd never forget this. it would play over in my head over and over. and, while the relationship may last a little longer, it would end at this moment.

i wouldn't be able to get over the plausibility (and i think, really, the likelihood) that the "prank" is a way to cover-up for the fact that she had to take a shower. see, otherwise, he's going to get home and wonder why she just took a shower while buddy was there.

as an aside, i don't like this fousey guy. at all.


i would quietly check the laundry for evidence. and, if the laundry is running before i got there, i would interpret it as incriminating.

you'll notice at the beginning her hair was dry, and then it's edited, and then it's wet, and she looks conflicted.

i'm not passing judgement. i'm just saying, that if i was roman? i couldn't deal with this. it's not something you play with.

it's partially the public nature of it. if you consider the possibility (and, again, i think the likelihood) that it's actually a cover up to hide the fact that a shower was necessary before roman came home, think about what posting it on a popular youtube channel - in this way - does to the guy.

i mean, it seems as though she did take a shower.

Nick Bean
+deathtokoalas You're thinking way to much into this. yeah it looks bad. but Roman is a good sport and knows this would never happen.

deathtokoalas
i don't know if you've been in a situation where you've had a partner that has not just cheated on you but lied about it, but, if you have, it's not something you get over quickly. it sticks with you. and, it affects your ability to trust people. a prank like this isn't harmless.

Nick Bean
+deathtokoalas I have, and I know what it feels like. Roman has been cheated on by his ex wife, so he already knows how that feels. Of course a lot of raging emotions came through. You could see the anger. But once you found out it was just a prank he was relieved.

deathtokoalas
+Nick Bean what i'm saying is that even if it is a prank, it's hard to know it is, for sure. and, that uncertainty is something that can never really be dealt with. it's this toxic thing that just balloons, until it explodes and takes the whole thing down with it.

Nick Bean
It's obvious you've been cheated on before. But not everyone is like that. A harmless prank is all this was.

deathtokoalas
+Nick Bean well, we'll see. i don't know...anything...about these people. but, don't be surprised if this festers and lingers and is ultimately toxic. based on what i've seen in this video, if i was in his shoes, i would have a hard time suppressing the thought that i was being played in just about the most disgusting way possible, and would be both searching everywhere for evidence (evidence to prove it wrong, mind you - i'd be trying to prove it didn't happen) and have a heightened level of caution about things i maybe hadn't thought of before.