i mean, i've slept with one person in my life. she was female.

that was more than ten years ago.

and, i've turned down dozens of women since then. i'm not keeping a running total or anything, but i'd guess i've refused sex with at least 20 women. it might be closer to 50.

the opportunities with guys just don't really come up. i guess there's good reasons for that: i don't have much to offer gay men. i get hit on in gay spaces, but it's fleeting; i hate it, but it's a thing gay guys do, and it doesn't take them long to figure it out. the solution is for me to stay out of gay spaces. and, i don't have much to offer straight men, either.

it's weird. i can't state with any force that i'm into men. but, i think i can state with some force at this point that i really have absolutely no interest in women at all. not because i've sat down and made a choice, but it's just experience. i think i've been hit on by just about every kind of woman, and all i've ever done is reject.

jagmeet singh must cut his beard.