that means you lose equally when you deserve to lose because you're a weak candidate, that you don't get special treatment or have a space put aside for you due to quotas or affirmative action.
that means you have to fight with the big kids and be held to the same standards and win on the merits and not cry it's not fair when you don't.
the reality is that trudeau's comments are actually extremely sexist, that he has a long history of chauvinistic behaviour and attitudes and that his policies are rooted in the premise of giving a helping hand to the weaker sex out of noblesse oblige, when he's not just cynically trying to get laid (and we might not have to wait too much longer to get the stories about that, if you really want to hear them).