it's a different code of conduct between gay men. they'll grab each other, slap each other, grope each other, think it's ok to randomly kiss strangers, etc. it's the culture. i guess part of being a gay guy at a gay club is being tough enough to take a random kiss, and muscular enough to push it off if you don't want it.

"why are you here then, sweetie?"

well, point taken, i guess.

i don't want to make it seem like i've been assaulted, although some people would define some of it that way. but, it's not exactly what i'm looking for in a night out, either.