i think the reason i'd prefer an older woman is because it's going to be more of an intellectual thing than a physical thing.
and i think the reason i'd prefer a younger dude is because it's going to be more of a physical thing than an emotional one.
i mean, if i wanted to hang out and chum around with hot guys, i'd just be gay. i don't really enjoy the company of men at all. but i am physically attracted to them...
on the other hand, while i prefer the company of women, i don't get nearly as aroused by them.