this was a girl that had a basketball scholarship, although she refused to use it. she held every record at her high school. she was captain of her team. she was dominant, aggressive, strong-willed - and she knew how to take control of me, and place me in a submissive position.
i don't meet a lot of women that are like that. but, if there's a way to 'get' me, that is it - you have to take control.